Ange, I hope I'm not doing the wrong thing by commenting here (I'm not even sure if I should be reading!), I don't want to drag old hurts to the surface, but I wanted to say I think you've done the right thing in coming to the decision you have. When someone shows you as little respect as he did by doing what he did then just seeing them is going to hurt. You are a beautiful and intelligent woman and deserve better. As one of the ones he deceived I want to apologise and say I never would have done it had I known the truth. If you ever want to chat, Jason S knows how to get in touch with me.
- The girl from the car in the hills.
 

Don't worry - You don't need to apologise. You had no idea. He was the asshole here.